Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Things That Urk Me..[rant/drama addressing]

Rumors abound everywhere, when honestly, they shouldn't even have been created to begin with.

There's been several rumors that have been floating about, and I must say, why the fuck does anybody have nothing better to do than to talk down and spread information/ideas of what they perceive when its one: no of their business, and two: why the fuck does someone have to hide what they are saying from the person they are talking about? I mean, seriously. Are you afraid the person you're talking about may prove the 'information' you are giving everyone wrong? Why not just go ASK the person your talking about whether or not something is true instead of talking with another person who may not have a single clue. rumors start fights, and honestly, it all you live for is to start rumors then you honestly deserve to die because all you exist for is to cause fights and strife among others for your own entertainment--whether you realize it or not.
Rumors are why we have the majority of wars we have in this world; for example, we are fighting in the Middle East (originally we entered into the war over) the rumor that the Iranians had "Weapons of Mass Destruction", even though they did not. We entered into the cold war and arrested hundreds of US citizens over rumors of them being 'communist', and Japanese-Americans during World War I over rumors of them being supposedly fighting for Japan even though they had no current ties to Japan, nor even evidence of them  being even slightly inclined of them wanting to fight against the US....quite the opposite, a good many joined the US military AGAINST Japan. Matter of fact, I've seen whole families ripped apart, and friendships ruined over rumors...
As a good rule of thumb, if you don't know something about a person as FACT (meaning if you don't know it's true---ie. you're guessing or assuming as to whether it's true) Then DON'T FUCKING SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT---maybe even ASK the person to confirm, or heck , maybe even get more accurate details. I mean shit, we are all adults for god's sake. So start acting like it.

Rumors I've heard about me in the past couple of months:


RUMOR: That I'm pregnant.
FACT: I'm just fat.
I've been eating a lot more since I've been living on my own since I don't have the arbitrary 'meal time' rules that I've had to abide by when I lived at my parents. Quite often If I'm too tired or lazy to cook food, I most of the time will just fix a bowl of ice-cream and usually go strait to sleep. Honestly I realize that is a bad habit, but I'm working on that.

RUMOR: My boyfriend doesn't care/doesn't take care of me.
FACT: He cares quite a bit actually.
He most of the time cooks most of my meals for me (and even sets them up in the fridge for me to pop in the microwave if I work late so I have normal food to eat--sometimes I forget this and go to the ice-cream--), he makes sure all the laundry is done so I can have clean house clothes as well as clean work uniforms. He's also been driving me back and forth of late because my car's been in the shop awaiting a new alternator so it will work, and even has done most of the needed repairs on my car--when I'm tired a lot of times he'll give me messages, encourages me to try new things, and a lot of times when he has cash, he'll spend it all on me just to show he cares.


RUMOR: My boyfriend doesn't control me enough.
FACT: Just because I am a FEMALE and WOMAN does not mean I need to be controlled.
I AM a HUMAN being just as yourself and thus I do not need controlling. If you don't like me, then good day to you  sir/madam! You don't have to be near me, or even around me. I am strange, unusual, like peculiar things, enjoy participating in bizarre activities, and even might even *gasp* might find them enjoyable enough to invite other people to do them. [Side note: If I don't invite you then it's probably because you have stated in the past something about not liking thing similar to what I am doing, so I gave you the gift of not having to feel like a douche for turning the offer down in front of everyone-- if you want to join in it's not like people talk to don't have my number.] I am a self made woman, and had to put up with more shit than most of you can't even begin to imagine even with the entirety of the remainder of your lives, so I believe I  have quite earned my right to choose what I want and do what the fuck ever I want to and live how I want. I was a literal slave for five years, and a victim of mental and physical abuse for twenty years; I refuse to have any sort of suppressive/oppressive authority over me in any measurable amount ever again.


RUMOR: That I'm a Bitch.
FACT: Maybe I am, but if you had been walked on for twenty years and suddenly grew a spine you would be perceived as such too.
Usually people refer to people as being a bitch when suddenly they don't agree with every tiny thing thrown at them anymore-- honestly I grew very tired of people's shit and pointless drama that benefited no one but the person playing the part of the 'victim'. I'm pretty sure the more you learn about life the less shit you'll put up with yourself because other people will suddenly seem much less worth the effort because you'll find you have much more important shit to do in life than pay to people's petty pity parties, and be everyone's 'friend'. You should grow a pair and have more respect for yourself if you think playing fool to most peoples whims (yes, whims because they get a kick out of seeing you twist yourself every which-a-way to their liking) will gain you a permanent position in that person's life ( honestly at that point you 'think' you absolutely need to please them to keep them near for you really honestly fear being alone: if you fear being alone then obviously you haven't met yourself because you are too busy being other people and need to talk a bit of 'alone time' to meet yourself and honestly, grow up to be the person you want to meet because you will meet your future self sooner than you think (ie. midlife crisis). and these people you are trying to please won't be around 2, 3, 5, 10, 20 years from now. If they won't be in your life a few years from now, then why are they worth investing all of your time and energy into?).




Well, that's enough ranting, and I'm sure you're wondering why I would post such personal information online where everyone on the planet including your mom, grandma , cousin, every child in school, even people on the other side of the world can see it. Well, this can be applied to anyone's life really, and honestly, some people don't simply realize that someone else can feel the way they do. And if this blog, by reading it can help them cope a bit then I'm all for it. Honestly everyone should be willing to help out their fellow man/woman out, even if that's mentally or emotionally. I seriously believe if we stopped and thought about half the shit we did then there would be so fewer fights, fewer arguments, fewer retard/stupid moments. Heck, the world might even become a better place for the little children you see running around (those kids may be potentially be the only people that visit you in the nursing home when you get old--you gotta be nice to them to get a nicer home and visits!). In order to be liked or loved you have to be likable and lovable--if not then don't fucking complain to everyone how 'nobody loves you' because it's your own damn fault (unless you're just surrounded by assholes, then you should find a new place to be, and quick before they drive you to depression and suicide--- nothing should ever be allowed to get that bad, I don't care who you are.


Well that concludes today's post , but seriously; you people need to get a a fucking grip. Rumors will honestly eventually cost you all of your friends, and what ever happiness you may have left to you so don't go about fucking shit up for other people just because you find it funny to do or simply have nothing better to do. Grow the fuck up and get a hobby.... I hear learning a language, or even sky diving is fun. Just get out there and do something that would be beneficial--be it beneficial to you or humanity as a whole, just stop making an ass of yourself!


But on a lighter note, this jacket is pretty bad ass.






~The Empress!~

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